What are some steps to gain confidence and stop caring about what others think

in life •  2 months ago 

Every now and again, I receive an email from a coworker inquiring about something that was mentioned. It is customary to begin with the question "Do you believe in the other person's potential?" This is something that would never be asked in a normal conversation. "Do you have faith in the other person's ability to succeed?"

I used to write a business book in my previous life. I've discovered that people don't believe in themselves. They have faith in others, but they do not have confidence in themselves. Someone who lacks self-assurance will be unable to be guided. Leadership necessitates a high level of self-assurance and self-esteem, as well as the capacity to establish and maintain trust.

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What does it matter if you don't like yourself? You will not be able to change your opinion, but you can make an attempt. You don't do things that you don't want to do. If doing something you don't want to do doesn't work, try something else. You can't hold it against others if you don't meet your objectives.

One is left wondering what the sender thinks of the other's potential after reading the email. They may believe this is a fantastic idea, but what if it is you who is thinking this? How can you tell if you actually believe what you're saying? Consider the possibility of finding someone who holds similar beliefs to yours.

Something should be brought to your attention. People are socialised to believe whatever they choose, regardless of the evidence. Leaders tend to believe what makes them look good in the eyes of their followers. They believe it because others have told them to believe it. It is for this reason that leaders and exceptional individuals are successful.

What about someone who is a follower? He or she would comply with everything you instructed him or her to do. If they were told what was wrong, they would cease. This is referred to as self-assurance. People who are deficient in self-assurance are prone to scepticism. He or she will be more responsive to leaders who exude self-assurance.

The doubter is directing people in the wrong direction with his own smoke. He or she will instruct them while holding the other person's hand. They will spread the word about the problem. Sure, if he set a good example, everyone would follow his lead. You will not be believed by anyone else unless and until you first believe in yourself.

The final step is to define goals for yourself as well as for other people. These should be attainable and based on realistic expectations. Your entire potential will not be realised until you write down your objectives and tick them off when they are achieved.

Consider the consequences of your conduct in every situation. What methods do you use to make decisions? Are you weak as a result of a low sense of self-worth? If this is the case, you should think about strengthening your own position. After you've figured out how to get stronger, take some time to consider your own self-perception. Someone who has a high sense of self believes that their potential is limitless.

In order to attract others, you must believe in their ability to achieve success. One strategy is to concentrate on the positive aspects of someone else's personality. As opposed to perceiving the bad aspects of someone throwing a Halloween party, you will feel happy for them and want to help them out. You'll convince yourself that you want to assist them because you're a wonderful host. The wonderful energy you generate when you put in the effort to assist someone else will be distributed to others.

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Do you know someone who is struggling with an addiction? Take into consideration all of the advantages they are gaining from their treatment. If you choose to ignore them because you believe they are a drug addict, their self-esteem will increase by a substantial amount. This will provide them with a burst of energy and serve as an inspiration to them as they combat their addiction.

What do you think you'll feel in a new situation? Do you believe that individual has a chance of succeeding in what they're attempting? Or do you treat them as if they were just another individual with no redeeming characteristics? If you're being completely honest with yourself, you'll recognise the difference between believing in someone and not believing in them. Knowing the difference will allow you to have more confidence in your own abilities.


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